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10 Things Not to Say at Your Next Sales Meeting

source: IMLS DCC

Sometimes, no matter how hard we try, the wrong words slip out in a client meeting. If you’re like me, you’ve had times when you wished you could take the words back just as soon as they passed your lips.

Here are 10 things you might want to avoid saying in your next sales meeting:

  1. Someone should have been fired for that.
  2. Yes, we’ve seen this before. It will be a breeze.
  3. I never would have done that.
  4. You actually hired those people?
  5. If it wasn’t hard, you wouldn’t need me, right?
  6. I’ll only need 90 minutes of your time to preview my qualifications.
  7. I wouldn’t want to work here either.
  8. The terms of this proposal expire in 3 hours.
  9. What were they thinking?
  10. We always lengthen the project time-line when a client wants to “help” us.

Any others you’d like to add? Let me know.

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Let Them Take Credit

michael w mclaughlinEver gone to a meeting and listened with dismay as a client took credit for your best ideas? Or maybe you’ve had to sit through a project wrap-up session in which your team’s effort was marginalzed and someone on the client side snagged the kudos for a job well done.

It’s hard not to fume when your hard work is pilfered. What do you do? Confront the idea thief? Ask the credit grabber to give your team a plug?

Your best option is to bite your tongue and say nothing. Why? I call it the Rule of Client Credit: By giving up the credit, you actually earn credit (and more business).

In any client meeting, you can be certain that the key people in the room know where the ideas they’re hearing came from. Sure, not everyone will get it, but those who matter most will. The same holds true for letting others have the glory for a project’s outcome. The right people are aware that they couldn’t have done it without you.

Instead of demanding equal tribute, allow your clients time in the spotlight. That selfless behavior will earn you something more valuable than short-term gratification: Respect and trust. Besides, you reap other rewards. The most obvious is that you get paid. Plus, you’re doing work you want to do (or you should be).

Of course, you can’t always follow the Rule of Client Credit. It’s not a good idea, for example, to stand by while someone mangles or misrepresents your ideas. In that case, you have to speak up and clarify–for the client’s sake.

For the most part, though, you’ll find that you benefit from letting clients take the credit. That’s not always easy on the ego, but it’s likely to lead to a stronger client relationships and more work. Isn’t that more important?

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Sanity Check: Stash the Headset

mchael w mclaughlinHere are three reasons to stash away your cell phone headset before your next meeting.

  1. You’re not going to take a phone call during your client meeting (at least, I hope you aren’t)
  2. You want to focus your client’s attention on the issues, not the blinking gadget on your ear
  3. It makes you look like you’re morphing into a borg.

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Blogs I Like: Andrew Sobel

andrew sobel photoFrom time to time, I pass along my thoughts on blogs or web sites that I read on a regular basis. Hopefully, you can gain as much benefit from them as I have.

Consultant Andrew Sobel publishes an insightful blog at www.AndrewSobel.com that focuses on the business of client relationships. You don’t have to be a management consultant to find this blog helpful. If you’re in a relationship-intensive business, you’ll find something of value on Sobel’s site.

The Voice of Authority

Sobel has worked for more than 25 years as a strategy advisor, executive educator, and coach. He’s written three books on building business relationships, including Clients for Life and All for One: 10 Strategies for Building Trusted Client Partnerships. And he’s written articles for most of the world’s major publications.

He uses his blog and web site to extend the concepts in his books and articles and to bring his latest thinking on developing client loyalty to his readers.

Comprehensive Content

This site offers a range of content from big thinking ideas to specific tactics, like how to have a perfect client meeting. If you read Sobel’s recent series of 10 posts called Things Clients Hate, you’ll have a great check list of things to avoid at your next client meeting.

You’ll also find dozens of articles, archived newsletters, and short video clips on the site.

I think Sobel does insightful work, and he shares his ideas freely. I’ve had an opportunity to interview him several times for Management Consulting News. Here’s a link to our most recent discussion on building client partnerships.

If you haven’t seen his blog, take a look. It’s worth having in your newsreader.

What blogs are you reading regularly?

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Death to FUD Selling

michael mclaughlin

The FUD Seller's Favorite Tool

 

If you’ve heard a few sales pitches, and I’m sure you have, then you’ve probably encountered the FUD (Fear, Uncertainty, and Doubt) approach to selling. The strategy is simple: scare people into taking action.

Usually, the seller offers a vivid description of a disastrous future in which the most profitable opportunities go to others because of your lack of action. Sometimes the FUD message is subtle, but it still underlies the seller’s strategy.

FUD selling should be kicked to the curb along with other bankrupt sales techniques like canned sales questions and forced closing gambits.

Trying to sell with FUD techniques shifts attention away from the problem that needs to be solved and focuses it on questions about the legitimacy of the threat. In the face of a possible threat, clients will wonder if it is real and worth worrying about. They will also ponder whether the seller is just blowing smoke to get the sale.

In either case, the seller becomes the center of attention, not the client’s need. That creates an unnecessary detour to arriving at a solution to the client’s problem.

Plus, the FUD seller takes a risk that the threat is truly credible. Last week, for example, I got a call from an FUD seller who so badly assessed the risks in my business that the sales pitch was laughable. The competitive threat he laid out was preposterous and irrelevant. It was a fast conversation.

Today’s sellers can thrive by building a client’s confidence that they understand the issues, emphasizing certainty that they can deliver on all promises, and, most importantly, creating trust that they have the client’s best interests in mind. Do those three things and FUD sellers will slowly—and forever– disappear.

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Handling Tough Client Situations

Most of us have gone through one of those “tense” client conversations—the kind of meeting you really wish you didn’t need to have. Maybe it’s about a missed deadline, a blown budget, or an unplanned change in project scope.

One thing that makes these meetings tougher is that people put them off, hoping to find some workaround to whatever obstacle blocks their path. By the time a meeting is set up, the problem is often bigger than when it first emerged.

If you and your client can discuss any problem with these principles in mind, the solution will come more quickly and you’ll strengthen your ability to work together.

  • It’s not a win-lose proposition
  • Affixing blame doesn’t fix anything
  • Define the problem in a way that allows you to solve it
  • Get the facts out in the open quickly
  • But test the validity of all assumptions and facts
  • Disagree without being disagreeable
  • Prevent future problems by focusing on how decisions are made
  • Keep reminding yourself and others that no one intended to create the problem.

The most important point is this: The success of the services you deliver and the results you achieve depend, in large part, on the quality of the personal interactions you have with others along the way.

Keep that in mind and you’ll be able to tackle any problem client situation you face.

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Perspective

What's your perspectiveI’ve never met a client who said, “Just get me any consultant in here.” Clients want a trustworthy person who knows their industry, business, and the issues they must tackle. In response, most professionals make a critical mistake in communicating their expertise. They focus only on what they’ve done, not on what they think.

You can show a prospective client a laundry list of relevant past clients and summaries of the projects you’ve completed. Showing clients what you’ve done is a good start, but it’s not enough. You also have to demonstrate how you think.

One way to capture your client’s imagination, and differentiate your business, is to show clients how you see the world–to express your particular point of view.

Often, that perspective is about where your client’s industry (or business) is headed in the future. Instead of resorting to clichés like “the rate of change is accelerating,” offer a definite view about what your clients can expect in the future. Make a logical and believable case, based on extrapolation of facts and trends, about how your clients’ businesses are likely to change next year, in five years, or in a decade.

You don’t have to rely only on forecasting the future. It’s equally powerful to have a strong view on how clients should be doing things in the present. Maybe you focus on three key challenges your clients are grappling with now. Create a point of view that defines those issues, points out the implications of maintaining the status quo, and offers a general approach for addressing those issues.

Whether you’re talking about the present or the future, be specific. Avoid generalizations like “succession planning will become more important in the next three years than ever before.” Instead, tell clients where and in what ways succession planning issues are likely to be most acute.

Don’t tell clients that leadership skills will be in short supply as baby-boomers retire. Tell them which skills they will need to lead their organizations in the future and how to cultivate those skills.

A bold, forward-looking perspective can engage clients in a dialogue about their issues and your ability to help them. If you want to convince clients that you know your stuff, few things work better than a thoughtful perspective on what matters most to them.

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Lessons of the Leaders

Lessons of the LeaderEvery now and then, it’s good to remind ourselves of the basics. I’m not referring to the fundamentals of sales and marketing, but to the essential behaviors that separate the best consultants from everyone else.

You’d think it would be easy to generate a list of those behaviors, but it’s not. And your list and mine could be entirely different.

Still, it’s worthwhile to try. My current list (which is in no particular order) stops at ten. You can probably add more, and I hope you will.

1. Keep Your Own Counsel

The most successful consultants are decidedly independent thinkers. I don’t have empirical evidence for this, but I’d guess that they reject (or modify) about half of the advice they get from others.

They’re wary of people who tell them how to dress, what pen to use, and how to determine who in an organization can (or can’t) make a buying decision. They consider all of the advice they get with a healthy dose of skepticism and subject everything to a reality check before making a change.

2. Generate Ideas When They Matter Most

By now, we’ve all heard the echoing message that the path to winning in consulting is being a so-called thought leader. That label is so pervasive that it’s lost all meaning. And according to studies, much of the material claimed as thought leadership isn’t particularly thoughtful or worth following.

We should all spend time thinking about the “next big thing” and what the future holds. But what clients really want is practical and workable ideas–when they need them. That’s what you should focus on: creating ideas and alternatives that clients can use to address the issues they face right now, even if those ideas don’t aspire to the lofty status of thought leadership.

For successful consultants, the timing of an idea, whether big or small, is what makes the difference for their clients.

3. Aim for Share of Mind–Not “Share of Wallet”

It’s always unsettling to hear service providers talk about their plans to snag as large a share as possible of a client’s consulting budget. Once they create a revenue target to secure a specific “share of wallet,” the result is a not-so-subtle, undesirable shift in their mindset.

Instead of concentrating on the client’s goals, their own revenue goals take center stage. That puts selling first, and client service second. If achieving a revenue goal drives your thoughts and actions, clients eventually sense this and the barriers go way up.

The best consultants look for innovative ways to open their clients’ minds before asking them to open their wallets.

4. Kill the Metaphors

If you’ve been around this business for long, you’ve probably heard someone refer to selling as a hunt, or use other inane metaphors to describe a sales effort. In that sort of thinking, a sales opportunity is a chase or a game, and clients are the prize.

The language of sales is full of such counter-productive language. One seller characterized his company’s sales strategy as “you eat what you kill.” Another referred to a prospective client as a “wallet with legs.” We have “hunters” and “farmers.” The list goes on and on.

Of course, few people probably really view clients as prey, but words affect our thoughts and behavior. So if those metaphors get into your head, don’t be surprised if clients keep you at arm’s length. You’d do the same if someone treated you as if you had a target on your back.

Successful consultants think about serving clients, not hunting them. They facilitate problem solving instead of farming. They think of revenue generation for their businesses as shared value with clients, not as a win-lose game.

5. Commit to the Art of Consulting

Every successful consultant is a subject matter expert in something. The really great ones have also mastered the process of consulting.

Most people can define and manage a project, but that’s just table stakes. Consulting is most often about the nuances of creating influence when you don’t have authority, leveraging the skills of others who may not support what you’re doing, and speaking with total candor when it’s not in your self-interest to do so.

Every discipline is part art and science. The leading consultants commit to mastering both.

6. Be Confident without Arrogance

Few clients will hire (or follow the advice of) a consultant who doesn’t possess that intangible ability to set people at ease. Your confidence communicates to clients that things are going to work out.

More than a few consultants, though, have found that their confidence can get the better of them. They’ve taken on work that stretches beyond the boundaries of their capabilities. Usually, the result isn’t pretty.

There’s a fine line between confidence and arrogance, which the best consultants recognize and respect. They know when to back off. If you’re tempted to venture into unfamiliar project territory, check your justification for doing it. Are you being confident or arrogant?

7. Be Transparent before the Client Asks

The best consultants know that what may seem trivial to them can be a deal-breaker to a client. For instance, you may have partnerships, affiliate agreements, and other financial arrangements that are a small part of your business. But in your client’s view, these relationships could be a big problem.

Maybe you get a finder’s fee for introducing others to your client. Or maybe you receive a commission if you recommend a specific product or system.

Be direct with your clients about anything that may influence your opinions. And do it early in the client relationship. You’ll find that it’s far simpler to prevent misunderstandings by making early disclosures.

8. Reject the “Under-Promise and Over-Deliver” Strategy

You’ll hear consultants suggest a strategy of deliberately under-promising what they’ll deliver to a client so they can exceed the understated expectations when a project wraps up.

Successful consultants don’t stoop to this tactic, which is manipulative, cynical, and consultant-focused. If you find ways to bring extra value to clients along the way, fine. But deliberately understating what you’ll deliver is worse than foolish.

Be honest with your clients about what you can and will deliver. Collaborate on an expected result and deliver it. If the agreed-on value of the project is high, you’ll create a delighted client–and a long-term relationship–by meeting that expectation.

9. Start Strong to Finish Ahead

Lots of people will tell you that what’s important is how you finish, not how you start. Of course, the end result of a project matters, but the most successful consultants know that it’s a lot less painful to finish a project if you do a good job launching it.

Once you sell a project, everyone is antsy to get going. But before you do, be certain that you and your client are clear about objectives, scope, work plan, and fee arrangements. Then, clarify how you’ll work together, who will have responsibility for specific tasks, and how you will define “done.”

And don’t forget to agree on how you’ll disengage and how you’ll know if and when you have met the client’s expectations.

10. Be Collegial (to Everyone)

Most consultants are good at managing their relationships with client decision makers and influencers. But some fail miserably when they work with support staff and even with colleagues. We’ve all got a story or two about insensitive consultants running roughshod over anyone they considered to be beneath them.

The best consultants realize that ours is a high-touch, human relations business. Every person, regardless of level or status, deserves to be treated with respect. Remember, consultants succeed only if people willingly follow their lead.

Add to the List

What other behaviors have you observed in highly successful consultants?

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Waiting

Remember the last time you had to wait for something? Maybe it was in a long line, or for a delayed flight, or for a report from a co-worker.

When we must wait for very long (or think we’re going to have to) it makes us feel unimportant. Our minds start asking questions like “Isn’t there some way around this?” “Can someone else help me?” And “Should I continue doing business here?”

When we make people wait, we take away what they value most: the ability to control what they do with their time. We transform a positive expectation into frustration. People spread the word about annoying wait times–that’s a misery everyone relates to.

Is someone waiting for you?

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Choke Under Pressure?

I blew itEveryone knows that sinking feeling of blowing it under pressure. Maybe it was when you suddenly lost your train of thought in a sales presentation, or a client meeting you flubbed. It happens to all of us, at some point. Usually, we chalk it up to a case of “nerves.”

Now, University of Chicago psychologist Sian Beilock tells us that choking under pressure is preventable. In her new book, Choke: What the Secrets of the Brain Reveal about Getting It Right When You Have To, Beilock attributes suboptimal performance when the heat is on to information logjams in the brain.

Beilock says that thinking too much about what you are doing and over-analyzing can create mental logjams that sabotage your performance. And when you try to control every aspect of a situation in an effort to succeed, that can backfire and make you choke.

What can you do to improve the odds that you won’t choke? One strategy is to find ways to reduce the stress associated with high-pressure events. We know how important it is, for example, to rehearse a speech. You can further improve your performance if, when you are rehearsing, you simulate the stress you’d experience during the actual meeting.

The goal should be to make your practice feel as close as possible to the real event. That way, you’ll avoid creating a logjam in your head, make your presentation more of a routine occurrence, and you’ll choke less.

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