The Bankrupt Language of Sales

If you’ve been around the sales business long enough, it’s likely you’ve heard someone refer to selling as a hunt, or use a worn-out sports metaphor to describe a sales effort. In this sort of thinking, a sales opportunity is a chase or a game, and clients are the prize.

The language of sales is full of bankrupt, counter-productive language that hinders your ability to win. One seller characterized his company’s sales strategy as “you eat what you kill.” Another referred to a prospective client as a “wallet with legs.”

Language like that shifts your mindset to your own goals, instead of focusing it on what clients need.  If you’re a “hunter,” your tactics to snare your quarry might be stealth, guile, and fire power, which rarely work for selling services.

Of course, you probably don’t really view clients as prey, but words affect our thoughts and behavior. So don’t be surprised if your clients figure out that you view them as objects of pursuit, instead of as collaborators. Put yourself in their shoes. How do you react when a seller treats you as if you have a target on your back?

About Michael W. McLaughlin

Michael McLaughlin is the principal consultant with MindShare Consulting LLC, a firm specializing in the services industry.

  • http://www.ianbrodie.com Ian Brodie

    Very true. Another word that makes me cringe that internet marketers tend to use is “list”. “You need a big list”, “Build your list” etc.

    The discussion often progresses without any recognition that it’s people’s names on the list, and real human beings behind those names.

    It’s not surprising that much of the advice is then about how to maximise how much money you make from your list – rather than talking about how much value you can add to your clients.

    Ian

  • http://www.writeinfluence.com Nicole DeFalco

    Such an important point to keep at the forefront of all we do in sales and consulting. I get frustrated at times when I’m working with a group of people who seem to be “stuck” on how to label an idea or process. My first inclination is to hurry them along to more important things. This article is a great reminder of the influence of words. A good strategy is to determine the outcome or behavior we are trying to achieve and then select the name that would put the target group in the correct frame of mind to reach the desired result.

    Great post!

  • http://www.highprobabilityselling.com Jacques Werth

    Michael W. McLaughlin just won a new fan. He is 100 percent correct.

    Consider:
    Selling is Manipulation
    Killer closing techniques
    The Silver Bullet close
    The Misdirection close
    A great sales pitch
    Either you win or the prospect wins
    Slip it past them
    Getting past the gatekeeper
    Selling to Vito
    Overcome Objections
    Say whatever it takes to get the appointment
    Tell them what they want to hear
    They don’t know what hit them
    I Crushed Them
    Rejection is a big part of sales
    Mirror them into a trance
    Likability is the most important skill
    Bring home the bacon
    Convince yourself first
    Make them feel that you care
    Act like you are their new best friend
    Enthusiasm is contagious
    Put me in front of them and I can close
    Act like an expert
    Do anything to make a sale
    Do whatever it takes
    Accentuate the positives – hide the negatives
    It ain’t lying if the prospect believes you